Just Go To Hell?

In a conversation with a brother, sparked by the banner at the Belfast gay pride parade that said 'Jesus was a fag just like me', my brother said that there are some people that you wish would not get saved, and would face God's judgement.
Honestly, I totally agree, there are opponents and enemies of Christianity who sometimes I wish would just be struck down by God like Herod in Acts 12:21-23 and who would not receive the grace of God in salvation.
However this is not what Jesus would have us to hope for, when James & John wanted to call down fire from heaven to destroy opposition in Luke 9:54 Jesus rebuked them.
And is one of the main teachings of Jonah not against this, Jonah doesn't want the people of Nineveh to be pardoned by God, in fact Jonah wants to see them destroyed of the face of the planet. But God offers grace and at the end of the book of Jonah rebukes Jonah.

So although I agree, that we as Christians are going to feel rage when our Lord is attacked and His character and person brought low, our response ought to be Christ-like and let His teachings and Lordship rule over our lives and our responses.

Matthew 5:44-48
"But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you,
"that you may be sons of your Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.
"For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? Do not even the tax collectors do the same?
"And if you greet your brethren only, what do you do more than others? Do not even the tax collectors do so?
"Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect."

If we respond to our enemies in hatred, bitterness or violence we are refusing to obey Jesus and it will look as though Jesus words don't mean that much to us anyway.
Those outside of Christ show that they are not His by their disobedience of Him and their opposition to Him. We should not fall into the same disobedience lest we look just like them.

Other religions may kill those who disagree with them but we are not of that same Spirit. We are of the Spirit of Christ who, while on the Cross, prayed for the forgiveness of those who put Him there.